Emotionality of Success Monthly Newsletter

February 2025

Professional Quadrant

From Perfection to Purpose: Christie Moore’s Journey of Faith, Resilience, and Impact

Christie Moore, Owner of Mansfield Funeral Home and Crematory Services

When you think of trailblazers in business, Christie Moore is a name that stands out. She’s achieved incredible milestones, like opening the first woman-owned crematory in Tarrant County in 2023 and running a successful pet cemetery before selling it in 2022. But Christie’s journey isn’t just about her achievements—it’s about resilience, faith, and the power of being seen.

Years ago, I honored Christie at one of my events, August Accountability, for being exemplary in the Professional Quadrant. Today, she shared with me how much that moment meant. To her, it wasn’t just an award—it was another Black woman recognizing her work in the community. That acknowledgment, she said, ignited something inside her, taking her to a whole new level that propelled her forward exponentially.

But the road hasn’t been easy. In the early days of building her business, Christie admits she didn’t balance things well. Stress and grief led to a diagnosis of type 1 diabetes, forcing her to rethink how she lived and worked. Now, she’s all about self-care—yoga, meditation, taking days off, delegating tasks, and relying on her faith, family, and friends for support. These changes have transformed her approach to both life and business.

One of Christie’s biggest lessons has been letting go of the idea of perfection. Growing up hearing “failure is not an option” gave her a false sense of what success should look like. Over time, she realized perfection isn’t part of God’s plan and learned to embrace grace—both for herself and for others. Now, she focuses on excellence, not perfection, and she’s intentional about hiring people who align with her vision.

Christie’s legacy is rooted in love and service. She wants her family to remember her as someone who cared deeply for others and lived with integrity. For her community, she hopes her name will reflect excellence, compassion, and her unwavering commitment to serving God’s people.

Her Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs
Christie encourages those striving for success to first reflect on their “why.” She emphasizes the importance of seeking God’s direction before making any moves, cautioning that inspiration without alignment can lead to missteps. “I pray for the people who ask me for advice,” she shares. “If this is what you’re supposed to do, be ready for the ups and downs, and stay open to learning and pivoting.”

Christie’s journey reminds us that success is about more than accolades. It’s about finding balance, staying true to your purpose, and embracing the power of community and faith along the way.

Relationship Quadrant

Self-Love as the Foundation for Healthy Relationships

When we talk about relationships, we often focus on how we connect with others—our partners, friends, or family. But the truth is, next to God, the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself. Self-love isn’t just a trendy phrase; it’s the foundation for every other relationship in your life. When you love and value yourself, you set the tone for how others treat you and how you show up for the people you care about.

How Lack of Self-Love Shows Up in Our Lives

Sometimes, we don’t realize that our struggles in relationships stem from how we view and treat ourselves. Here are a few signs that self-love might be missing:

  • Negative Self-Talk: Constantly criticizing yourself or focusing on your flaws.

  • People-Pleasing: Saying yes to everyone else at the expense of your own needs.

  • Fear of Boundaries: Avoiding setting limits because you’re afraid of rejection or conflict.

  • Accepting Less Than You Deserve: Staying in unhealthy relationships or situations because you don’t believe you’re worth more.

  • Difficulty Accepting Compliments: Brushing off kind words because you don’t see your own value.

Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward change.

How Self-Love Impacts Other Relationships

When you prioritize self-love:

  • You communicate more clearly and confidently.

  • You set boundaries without guilt.

  • You attract relationships based on mutual respect and care.

  • You show up as your authentic self, which deepens connections.

Simple Practices to Cultivate Self-Love

The good news is, self-love isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. Here are a few ways to start today:

  1. Practice Positive Self-Talk: Replace negative thoughts with affirmations like, “I am enough,” or, “I am deserving of love and respect.”

  2. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no when needed and protect your time and energy.

  3. Prioritize Your Needs: Make time for things that bring you joy, peace, or fulfillment.

  4. Celebrate Wins: Acknowledge your achievements, big or small, instead of downplaying them.

  5. Spend Time Alone: Learn to enjoy your own company through activities like journaling, taking yourself out, or simply reflecting.

  6. Forgive Yourself: Let go of past mistakes and treat yourself with the same kindness you’d give a close friend.

Why It Matters

When you commit to loving yourself, it transforms how you relate to the world around you. You stop seeking validation from external sources and start building relationships from a place of abundance rather than need. That’s the kind of energy that fosters deep, meaningful connections.

This February, take some time to reflect on your relationship with yourself. Are you showing yourself the love and care you deserve? If not, start small. Remember, self-love isn’t selfish—it’s essential.

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